Re-slump

Okay, so maybe I'm not done with the January slump.

I'm getting really, really frustrated with a couple of extra special personalities. I'm getting tired of fighting the same battles over and over again, with no new results.

The good news is that I completely rebuilt a disastrous relationship on Friday. Of course, this is not too difficult with 7th graders, because their deep-seated feeling change 100% every 11 minutes (or something like that - Mom knows). I am proud of myself, though, and proud of her, because while I distract her with "Nice job" and "You're a rockstar today", she's actually learning science.

My week kind of ended on a rough note, which is why I was so frustrated leaving on Friday. Usually on half days, there is one class period after lunch. However, on Friday, the schedule was modified so that lunch was last (to account for lower middle school activities). Students went to check-out first, got their jackets and cell phones, and then had lunch. This makes lunch detention extra fun. When an entire roomful of 7th graders, with no work to do, ready to go home on a half day, decide that they're done cooperating, it's a challenge to keep them together. It was a challenge. I left cranky. This is unfortunate, because the rest of the day had been great.

Yesterday, I had a good day of classes, but the most fun moment was when our office manager had an Excel conundrum. I spent about an hour (okay, I should have been planning) working through a programming solution (Excel doesn't allow for elseif, but instead nested ifs. There were a lot of nested ifs). It was a lot of fun, and I felt pretty proud of myself. I love solving puzzles!

Today, I came in and was reminded why I love this place and why I love this job. This morning was our school-wide poetry slam finals. Five 7th- and 8th-graders stood up in front of their peers and bared their souls. I was equally impressed with the poetry, performances, and peer responses. The winner will have their poem published in the high school literary magazine. It was awesome.

Another reason I love this school is that the history class is currently acting out a trial of Hernan Cortes. Students have been studying Spanish colonization of the Americas, and also courtroom procedure. Students were given the opportunity to dress up for the trials (especially the "attorneys"). Several students came in today and yesterday in suits or other professional wear, and looked like small grown-ups! I'd hire them. I love how they jump at an opportunity to dress up like small professionals.

I got some solid training in this weekend. Immediately after school Friday, I went for a short (30 min) swim, and then an awesome 2-mile run. My foot was feeling great, so I took it out on Sunday for 2.5 miles (with a couple of walking breaks, of course). It is cold. It is very cold. But, I hate the treadmill more than the cold, so I suffered some windburn for the cause. I also took a 1-hour bike ride (which I can do indoors, because I can more easily entertain myself than on a treadmill). That gives me a total of 3 hours of training for the week (plus another 30 minutes or so of core/strength in the mornings), which is not a bad place to be in January. If I increase training by one hour every month, I'll be in a good place this summer.
weekend training.

We're Back!

We were given this graph at our last staff meeting. It's relatable for not-just-first-year-teachers. Forgive me my slump, but I think I'm pulling myself out of it.

I was frustrated. Work was rough. It felt like playing tug-of-war with 12-year-olds who are bigger and stronger than me. Once their parents joined in, I had no chance. Plus, I hurt my foot and haven't been running in 3 weeks.

Fortunately, my colleagues joined the team, and we're starting to win.

On Tuesday, I had a particularly difficult phone call with a parent. She accused me of picking on her daughter. "At first, I thought she was a troublemaker, but after getting these phone calls so many times, I'm starting to think the teachers are picking on her...I want to meet with Principal and see if she can be transferred out of your science class...the Dean agreed that he doesn't know what is going on, that you must be picking on her."

Ouch. I cried a little. Of course, the principal and dean stand behind me 100%. After some hard-core brainstorming sessions, the dean pushed me to realize that this girl comes home every day and says, "Teacher did this, Teacher kicked me out for no reason, Teacher took dollars for no reason." SHE owns the relationship between her mother and me. Dean convinced me to suck it up, and own the relationship. So, yesterday, I took a deep breath, clenched my sweaty fists, and called mom. I shared how well her daughter did in class that morning, and how excited I am to improve communication between us. It went well.

I started a Time, Tone, and Place working group. "Time, Tone, and Place" is verbiage we use at school to teach kids to appropriately respond to unfavorable situations, rather than talking back immediately. For example, if a student loses a dollar for talking, but it was really their peer talking, they are expected to get back to work, and talk to the teacher after class or at lunch time. This working group was created for those students who are the talk-backiest. (And I am an expert on talk-backiness. Just ask my parents.) These students were given notepads, which they are encouraged to carry around, and jot down their thoughts and arguments. They will then meet with their mentor a couple of times a week (about 1-2 kids per 7th grade teacher) to figure out how to best approach the situation in a mature way. They can earn dollars for using their notepad properly. So far (since yesterday), the notepads seem to be working. The kids are excited, and we assigned them to mentors that already have solid relationships. We're hoping that by choosing the right 10 students for this group, we can significantly improve the response-to-feedback culture in the 7th grade with minimal effort from any one teacher. I call it a delegation win!

Yesterday, I had to videotape a class to PiA a Relay assignment. I was looking for a particular questioning skill. I had a PERFECT questioning moment, that showed the students working hard to teach each other complex skills, with minimal effort on my part. It went like this:

(Key point of the lesson: Acceleration is any change in velocity, including increasing speed, decreasing speed, and changing direction. An object is not accelerating only if it is not moving, or traveling at a constant speed and direction.)
An airplane is landing at an airport. As it reaches the runway, it slows to a stop. Is their airplane accelerating?

Student 1: I think it is not accelerating because it is slowing down, not speeding up.
Student 2: I disagree with Student 1. I think it is accelerating because it is decreasing speed, it is not moving at a constant speed.
Teacher: I can't decide. Let's take a vote. Show me on your hands. 1 if it is accelerating, 2 if it is not accelerating. All hands up in 3, 2, 1...[most students raise hands, teacher says things until 100% of hands are vertical] Student 3, why did you choose 1?
Student 3: It is accelerating because it is not moving at constant speed and direction, it is slowing down.
[Student 1 raises hand.]
Teacher: Student 1, what would you like to add?
Student 1: I now agree with Student 3, because I realize that the plane is accelerating because accelerating is slowing down or speeding up.

And then I realized the video camera was off.